Ever heard that saying that giving itself is a gift? Well, it definitely applies to oral sex. Oral can be just as fun for the giver as it is for the receiver, especially if you experiment with brand-new moves that both of you will love. Here are some techniques that’ll take oral up a notch for your partner and make it more exciting for you as well.
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Play with the backdoor
Oral
isn’t all about the genitals. For both men and women, the area around
the anus is filled with plenty of tiny nerve endings that feel wonderful
when stimulated with the hands or tongue, says Laura Berman,
Ph.D., sex and relationship therapist. Just make sure you discuss this
with your partner first so there are no surprises. Showering together as
foreplay might help you both feel clean and comfortable.
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Make some noise
Making
noise during sex isn’t just about the sound effect—noises like humming,
moans, and groans “create a stimulating vibration,” says Jonathan Alpert,
a psychotherapist and relationship expert. They also convey
enthusiasm, which will make the experience more fun for both of you.
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Tease them with kisses
To build anticipation, plant little kisses on your partner’s inner thighs and pubic mound, suggests Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., Astroglide’s resident sexologist.
“Simply hover over them and allow gentle kisses to emanate from your
lips as you awaken their nerve endings and draw awareness and
circulation to the area,” she says. “You can also use breath kisses over
the entire body to build arousal and encourage full body orgasms.”
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Get handsy
Your
hands and mouth combined will provide even more pleasure than your
mouth alone. If your partner has a vulva, O’Reilly recommends sliding
your hands over the clitoris or inner lips. “Run your tongue up and down
in the middle (between the inner lips) in the opposite direction,” she
says. “Pay extra attention to the fourchette (the notch at the bottom
where the lips meet) and the clitoral head with the tip of your tongue.”
If your partner has a penis, use your hands to grip the base of the
shaft while teasing the tip with your tongue.
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Have your partner touch you
Oral sex shouldn’t be all about your partner. Sex writer Emily Morse
suggests encouraging your partner to touch your breasts, nipples, and
clitoris while you’re pleasuring them. Turning you on will turn them on,
too.
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Massage the prostate
For
male partners, the prostate—located just in front of the rectum, it’s a
gland about the size and shape of a walnut—is often an under-explored
source of pleasure. "Discover and stimulate his prostate, a highly
orgasmic area, while you lick, kiss, and tease the shaft," suggests
Berman. "Once you find it, massage it gently, then gradually up the
intensity of your strokes and pressure," she says.
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Get nosey
Many
people like the feeling of grinding against something, and your nose
can come in handy for that, says O’Reilly. “Press it in and out, side to
side, up and down, and all around,” she suggests. “The tips of your
nose has a cool texture (feel it now!), so take advantage of its angles
and contours as your partner rides your face.”
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Use your entire body
Even
your hair will feel good against your partner’s belly or pubic bone,
says Alpert. Try massaging their thighs with your hands and rubbing your
body on them. You can even run your fingernails down their back. You
don’t have to emulate the “fast, furious, and hard” technique you’ve
seen in porn, Alpert adds. Go slow and tease your partner before getting
your mouth involved.
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